Day of Compliments
Creative Ways To Show Appreciation
With & Without Words
We all love compliments, but how often do we go beyond just saying "you look great" or "you're amazing"? Sometimes, the most meaningful compliments are the ones that are unexpected or expressed in creative ways. Imagine spending an entire day showering your partner (or even friends and family) with compliments, not through typical words, but through thoughtful, heartfelt gestures that make them feel appreciated and special.
Here’s how to make a day of compliments unforgettable, using unique and creative methods to show how much you care. This day is all about spreading positivity, showing love, and lifting people up in ways they may not expect!
1. Sticky Notes of Positivity Around the House
Start the day by turning your home into a compliment treasure trove. Write down little positive affirmations or compliments on sticky notes and leave them in random, unexpected places for your partner to find. Each note can highlight something unique about them, something they might not hear every day.
How to do it:
Write out 10-15 little notes with specific compliments. Some could be about their appearance ("You have the most gorgeous smile!"), personality ("Your kindness inspires me every day."), or something they did recently ("The way you handled that situation was amazing.").
Place them around the house: in the bathroom mirror, on the fridge, inside their shoes, on their pillow, and even in their car.
The joy of discovering each note will fill them with a sense of appreciation all day long.
Why it’s special: The small, thoughtful compliments scattered throughout the day keep the positivity flowing and create a fun game where your partner can be surprised over and over again.
2. Compliment Letter Delivered by Hand
A handwritten letter is a deeply personal and meaningful way to give someone a compliment. Writing out your feelings in a letter allows you to go beyond surface-level praise and express exactly what you love and appreciate about them in a more detailed, heartfelt way.
How to do it:
Sit down and write a letter that includes specific compliments about your partner—highlight their strengths, qualities, and things you admire about them.
You can focus on their inner beauty (“You are the most compassionate person I know,”) or on the little things they do that you love (“I love the way you laugh when you’re nervous—it’s the most endearing sound.”).
Give the letter to them in a special way, such as slipping it into their bag, leaving it in a place they’ll find it, or even delivering it with a cup of tea or coffee.
Why it’s special: Letters are personal, meaningful, and heartfelt. They provide a lasting, tangible reminder of your appreciation and love, and they’ll be able to reread it whenever they need a reminder of how great they are.
3. Venmo Compliment with a Fun Twist
Here’s a modern twist on compliments: send a small amount of money through Venmo with a fun compliment attached. It’s an unexpected and quirky way to brighten someone’s day, and it’s sure to make them smile.
How to do it:
Open your Venmo account and send your partner or friend a small amount of money.
In the “What’s it for?” section, write a sweet or funny compliment. For example, “For being the most amazing partner in the world,” or “Because you brighten every room you walk into.”
You can even add a fun emoji or two to make it extra playful.
Why it’s special: It’s an unexpected, modern twist on a compliment that also adds a little surprise element to their day—plus, who doesn’t love a little cash with a kind message?
4. Surprise Flower Delivery with a Personalized Note
Flowers are a timeless gesture, but adding a personalized compliment makes it even more meaningful. Send flowers to your partner or loved one with a note that’s full of compliments and sweet sentiments.
How to do it:
Choose a bouquet that you think will brighten their day, whether it’s their favorite flower or something vibrant and cheerful.
Write a short but thoughtful note to accompany the flowers, such as: “Your beauty is beyond words, inside and out,” or “You light up my life every day. You are a true blessing.”
Use a flower delivery service or hand-deliver them for an extra personal touch.
Why it’s special: Flowers paired with a heartfelt note are a beautiful, timeless way to show someone they are appreciated. The combination of nature’s beauty and your thoughtful words will leave them feeling cherished.
5. Compliment-Filled Playlist
Create a playlist of songs that speak to the qualities you admire most in your partner. Each song will represent something that you love about them—whether it’s their sense of humor, strength, kindness, or their infectious energy.
How to do it:
Curate a playlist of songs that reflect different aspects of your partner’s personality or your relationship.
Give it a meaningful name like “My Favorite Person,” or “For You, with Love.”
You can also write a small note or message explaining the songs and what they represent.
Send them the playlist and tell them to listen to it whenever they need a pick-me-up.
Why it’s special: Music has a powerful emotional impact. A playlist filled with compliments through songs is a fun and creative way to celebrate the unique qualities your partner has.
6. Compliment-A-Day Jar
Create a jar full of compliments and kind words, and let the recipient pull one out each day. It’s a great way to keep the compliment-giving going, and it’s something they can enjoy all month long.
How to do it:
Grab a small jar and write out a series of compliments on slips of paper.
Each compliment should be different—some could focus on their looks, others on their character, or special memories you’ve shared.
Decorate the jar with personal touches, like stickers or photos, and present it as a gift.
Your partner can pull out a compliment each day and feel loved all month long.
Why it’s special: The jar is a lasting way to show love and appreciation. Your partner will feel uplifted by the daily surprises and be reminded of how much they mean to you.
7. "Compliment Your Partner" DIY Coupon Book
Make a coupon book full of compliments your partner can redeem whenever they need a little boost. This unique compliment idea takes a bit of effort, but the results are super heartfelt.
How to do it:
Craft a coupon book using blank coupons or cardstock. On each coupon, write a different compliment (e.g., “You have the most beautiful laugh,” “You’re the best listener,” “I admire your work ethic”).
Include some fun extras, like, “Good for one massage” or “Redeem for an afternoon with me—just us, no distractions.”
When your partner needs a mood lift, they can redeem one of the compliments and feel the love all over again.
Why it’s special: This book is a thoughtful and interactive way to give compliments that last. Every time they redeem a coupon, it’s a reminder of your love and appreciation.
8. Personalized Puzzle of Compliments
Create a personalized puzzle where each piece contains a sweet compliment or memory about your partner. When they put the puzzle together, they’ll see a beautiful picture of your love and all the things you admire about them.
How to do it:
Use a photo from a special moment you shared (a trip, an anniversary, or a favorite picture of them) as the base image.
On the back of each puzzle piece, write a compliment or memory related to your partner.
You can get the puzzle printed at a local print shop or order one online.
Once they finish putting it together, it will reveal the compliments and the message you’ve created.
Why it’s special: This creative approach is a mix of fun and sentiment. It’s a puzzle with a heartwarming twist and a keepsake your partner will treasure.
9. Compliment by Helping with Something They Love
Instead of saying a compliment, show your appreciation by helping your partner with something they care about. Whether it’s a chore, a hobby, or a project they've been working on, your action will speak volumes.
How to do it:
Identify something your partner is passionate about—maybe it’s their garden, their work, or a creative project.
Offer to help with something related to that task, but also take the time to compliment them on how great they are at it or how much you admire their dedication.
For example, “I love how you’ve designed our garden. You have such an amazing sense of style!” as you help plant flowers or arrange plants together.
Why it’s special: Actions speak louder than words, and by actively helping them with something they love, you’re giving a heartfelt compliment that shows your appreciation.
10. Compliment During a Spa Day or Relaxing Moment
Give the gift of relaxation while complimenting your partner. Whether it’s through a massage, a face mask session, or a bubble bath, taking the time to pamper them while offering thoughtful compliments is an intimate way to show appreciation.
How to do it:
Plan a relaxing, pampering experience together, such as a DIY spa night or a bath with soothing candles and music.
While you’re giving them a massage or applying a face mask, compliment them on their beauty, kindness, or strength, making the experience even more special.
Why it’s special: Compliments during moments of relaxation feel even more meaningful. The pampering combined with kind words creates a deeply nurturing and loving experience.